Crossroads21
Clear, compassionate support when life feels overwhelming.
Separation and divorce advice that helps you think clearly, feel supported, and move forward with confidence.
If you’re facing separation, divorce, or a major relationship change, it can feel confusing, emotional and isolating. Crossroads21 is here to help you make sense of what’s happening and take practical, affordable and manageable steps forward at your pace.
You don’t need to do this alone and you will be glad to have found me, as Crossroads21 clients have said.
It’s normal to feel overwhelmed, so let’s take one step at a time.
Crossroads21 offers calm, practical guidance if you are experiencing issues as a result of a relationship or marital breakdown. You can find all of the services here. I help you understand your options, organise your thoughts and what next steps to take so you feel more in control, without judgement or pressure.
Whether you’re at the very start of a separation, already navigating the process, or feeling stuck and unsure what comes next, support is available at every stage.
How I can help you…
Every situation is different. That’s why Crossroads21 support is flexible, personal, and focused on what you need right now. I’m here to help every step of the way…
You may want help with:
Understanding your options, with my many services, before making decisions
Talking through separation or divorce worries
Thinking through arrangements for finances, children or pets
Help with how to communication with your ex and deal with trying to move forward to resolve any issues between yourselves
Preparing for conversations with a solicitor or mediator should you wish to engage with one
Organising paperwork, drafting emails, talking through practical next steps and more services
Managing emotions alongside real-life decisions, like my previous and current clients
This is clear, compassionate support to help you feel steadier and more prepared.
“…absolutely amazing - not only sound legal advice but practical advice as well. Honestly couldn’t tell you how much she helped me through… her advice worked so I didn’t need to proceed with further legal action….”
– Former client
“I was at a crossroads, feeling very emotional and distressed; Kirsten was very calming and empathetic. She really listened and offered very practical, measured advice.”
– Former client
Focus on what you can control right now. People often come to me feeling overwhelmed, unheard, or unsure where to turn when going through a divorce or separation. Just like many of my clients, what they value most is:
A calm, non-judgemental space to talk things through
Clear explanations without confusing legal/complex jargon
Straight-to-the-point advice and guidance
Practical, achievable steps, not unrealistic advice
Affordable services
Support that fits around real life
Sometimes, just having someone you can turn to, as and when you need advice and help, can make all the difference.
Why choose CrossRoads21?
About Me
I created Crossroads21 to support people through life-changing moments with compassion, clarity and honesty. Every little decision is progress at this time, so keep moving forward.
I understand how emotional and complicated separation and divorce can be not just legally, but personally. My role is to help you slow things down, think clearly, and feel supported while you decide what’s best for you. You’re not alone in this and it’s okay to feel uncertain.
You’ll never be rushed, judged, or pushed in a direction that doesn’t feel right. You are in control, meaning you contact me as and when you need me.
Why trust CrossRoads21?
I have over 15 years’ experience as a former family and divorce solicitor - you can find out more about me here.
Firsthand understanding of separation and divorce challenges
Support tailored to your personal needs, at your pace
Practical, emotionally informed advice when it matters most
Take the first step towards clarity and confidence today.
Ready to take the next step?
Take a moment and let’s think this through together. If you’re feeling stuck, uncertain, or simply need someone to talk things through with, support is available.
Book a confidential session today and take the first step towards clarity and confidence.
“Kirsten is excellent. Kirsten was recommended to me by someone I know, and I was really impressed after meeting with her myself. She is extremely knowledgeable, and she also made me feel very comfortable throughout our conversation.”
— Former Client