Hi, I’m Kirsten.
The founder of Crossroads21. I created this service to support people going through separation or divorce with clarity, compassion, and practical guidance.
While I had a 15 year former career working as a qualified family and divorce lawyer, I know first-hand how overwhelming these moments can feel, emotionally, practically, and mentally.
A few years ago, I myself went through a divorce, and it made me see how much of a difference it would have made to have someone to talk to who could explain things clearly and calmly. When you have no idea what to do or what questions you should even be asking, you just want to speak with one person who can give you straight answers and guide you with exactly what steps you need to take. Wondering how you will be able to afford to pay for expert advice and guidance, especially during these uncertain times, is also a major worry.
This professional and personal experience inspired me to offer this support service to others, which is so often missing when you go down the traditional routes of divorce and separation.
At Crossroads21, you won’t find judgment or pressure. Instead, I offer a safe space to talk through your situation, understand your options, and take achievable steps forward. Whether you need to understand the facts and options available to you, emotional support, help organising paperwork, or guidance for conversations with your ex, solicitors, mediators, or family, my approach is flexible and centred on what you need.
Every journey is unique, and my role is to provide steady guidance and reassurance along the way. By breaking down complex situations into manageable steps, I help you feel more in control and able to make decisions that are right for you.
Outside of my work, I value empathy, understanding, and creating environments where people feel heard. I bring these principles to every session, ensuring that you have the support and clarity you need at a challenging time.
Qualifications & Experience
I bring over 15 years of experience as a former qualified family and divorce solicitor, having worked extensively in Cheshire and Greater Manchester. I understand not just the legal processes, but more importantly the personal, human, and practical challenges that come with separation and divorce.
In 2021, I went through my own separation and divorce, giving me firsthand insight into the emotional journey that accompanies these life changes. This experience, combined with my professional background, shaped my approach to supporting others with empathy and clarity.
I left the legal profession in April 2025 and am no longer a practising solicitor. In September 2025, I launched Crossroads21 to offer a more affordable and accessible support service.
My aim is to help you take the steps you need to achieve an amicable resolution to all issues that can arise as a result of a separation or divorce. I do this by providing clear, honest, practical, and emotionally informed guidance exactly when it’s needed most.
I am pleased I have been able to develop this service, as several times I have heard from clients either “I am so glad I found you”, “I wish I had found you sooner” or “I didn’t realise someone like you exists”.
Education & Career Path:
Biology degree and Law degree
Started as a family law paralegal in 2007
Trainee solicitor in 2008
Qualified as a family solicitor in January 2010
Professional Experience:
Between 2010 and April 2025, I worked across a range of law firms, including small niche boutique family firms, high street practices, and large national law firms. This has given me extensive experience in family law and the opportunity to support clients in a wide variety of situations throughout England and Wales.
My combined legal expertise and personal experience ensure that I can offer practical, informed, and compassionate support tailored to each client’s unique circumstances.
Outside of my work, I value empathy, understanding, and creating environments where people feel heard. I bring these principles to every session, ensuring that you have the support and clarity you need at a challenging time.